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Principles of Peacemaking, Peacekeeping, and Negotiation
Twenty things to keep in mind when navigating conflict
Oct 16 • 
B. Kim Barnes

September 2025

The Ethics of Influence
Being effective, not manipulative
Sep 30 • 
B. Kim Barnes

July 2025

An Approach to Rational Conversation in Divisive Times
Research in neuroscience and behavioral economics tells us that it is very difficult–if not impossible–to change someone’s mind, once they have…
Jul 9 • 
B. Kim Barnes

June 2025

Artificial Writing
Reframing as an Influence Tool
Jun 12 • 
B. Kim Barnes

May 2025

The Problem With Praise
And what to do instead - at least sometimes!
May 6 • 
B. Kim Barnes

April 2025

Bad, Wrong, or Stupid:
How Not to Influence
Apr 14 • 
B. Kim Barnes

March 2025

The Future of Work: How Does Work Shape Our Lives and What Will We Do Without It?
This has long been a question that people considering retirement reflect on.
Mar 3 • 
B. Kim Barnes

November 2024

When Either-or is Neither-nor
And what to do then...
Nov 7, 2024 • 
B. Kim Barnes

September 2024

Constructive Debate
An Approach to Building Better Ideas
Sep 3, 2024 • 
B. Kim Barnes

July 2024

When Persuasion isn't Persuasive
And what to do instead...
Jul 8, 2024 • 
B. Kim Barnes

June 2024

What You Love Can Be What You Write
Create unusual and inspiring connections
Jun 3, 2024 • 
B. Kim Barnes

May 2024

The Ethics of Influence
Doing Well by Doing Good
May 22, 2024 • 
B. Kim Barnes
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